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November 6th, 2009 by dianna
J's drawing of the National Equality March

J's drawing of the National Equality March

We spend 9 days in Washington DC early October to attend the National Equality March. Though the march itself was amazing, it was the stories around the march that really brought it to life for me.

@flygirlaviation -”barging it” in a hybrid car w/3 people and a dog to DC from Santa Cruz.

DADT Protest, Washington DC Oct 10, 2009

DADT Protest, Washington DC Oct 10, 2009

She is by far one of our most passionate straight allies - not knowing where she will sleep in DC and/or how she will get home. So committed to just being a part of history and the fight for LGBT rights.

Others on the street, who tell their stories of marrying friends to allow them access to our country because they are not allowed to marry the one they love.

Sitting with 100 people at the Madisson Hotel in DC watching CNN as we listen and react together as President Obama addressed the group at the HRC dinner just blocks away from us.

Sitting with 1000’s as Robin McGehee (Meet in the Middle for Equality) and Kip Williams (One Struggle One Fight), 2 grassroots activities that have been key participants in bringing this march to reality, welcome the crowd to the Nations Capital. The effort of these two individuals in California have been so significant in our fight for equality.

Being invited to stay in the home of a family in DC that we didn’t know and being welcomed by them in a way that some of our close family won’t do.

Marching with my 10 year old daughter, hearing her small voice amplified as we chanted with the crowd, her small hand in a fist in the air as she shouts, “what do we want? equality! when do we want it? now!”

Dianna <3 Rudi at National Equality March

Dianna <3 Rudi at National Equality March

Those moments and each person makes this community destine to prevail in this fight for equality. It may not be this year or next, but we are raising awareness, showing our intolerance, showing our love.

@JustMarriedUs: We r 2 ppl who love each other.Care 4 each other.Work hard.Pay taxes.Why r we less worthy of equal rights under law?

Thanks to everyone that has supported us in this journey. We love you all.

May 22nd, 2009 by dianna

The Prop 8 Oral Arguments on March 5, 2009: The “peaceful” rally, as stated by most of the local news stations, was a very different experience for me. After watching channel 2, 4, 5 and 7 news I couldn’t believe some of the stories they chose NOT to cover.

Sign reads "Dan White Hero for killing Queers"

Sign reads: Dan White was a hero for killing a queer

For example, how about the bus loads of Ukrainians that were brought in from Sacramento with massive “Yes on 8″ signs and scripts/instructions that they were given to say to anyone that would engage in a light debate. What i found most interesting about this group was that they mostly engaged with the young teens/adults in the crowds. When i approached the older men (40-60 age range) with questions of my own, i literally got NO RESPONSE. I found it strange at first, but then realized that they really didn’t have any depth of knowledge on the issue and so anything outside of their script was not something they were prepared for. The young men in that group were much more engaging but all they could say was hateful things about fags and that gay people were going to hell. They also then kindly reminded me that if i was gay i could not have children. They also insisted they would never have fags as kids because, well, it wouldn’t be allowed. I found this group fascinating because it took so little to get 100 of them together with big signs and scripts and have such a presence at this rally. The only thing unclear to me was if this group of young men and a sprinkling of adults had been paid to be there. I couldn’t get that out of them. They even were organized to block the views of those talking on the courthouse steps with their massive signs while the rest of us with small “I DO” signs stood behind. Brilliant!

I just wondered why theĀ ”No on 8″ side hadn’t organized as well. We have more then a handful of organizations that we are all pouring our money into and yet, there was no clear presence of any of them. Why? I’ll leave that topic for another blog post.

The next “Yes on 8″ group was church organized. They had red shirts that said something like, “Marriage = 1 Man + 1 Woman” along with small white tabloid size signs. They handed out to anyone interested the red T-shirts and the signs - another smart move since the shirts were so loud. This group was about half the size of the first group. They were a bit more respectful, also engaging in dialogue with the opposing side, but with some emotion in the conversation unlike the above more organized (potentially paid for) group.

Lastly, there were the normal, unorganized group of “Yes on 8″ individuals that were few and far between. They clearly put themselves in the middle of the organized group for safety reasons, but stood quietly with their signs.

The debates were not always respectful, there was a lot of yelling, cursing, and even physical contact with many of these people. The police got involved in at least 5 altercations that i was also involved in. I was hit, and hit a few people back. Signs were ripped out of peoples hands, and the emotions were beyond boiling point for most of the day.

Amazing that the Mormons were not visibly present, unless they actually were indirectly via the organized group…

Below are some of the faces of those people along with their messages:

Man quoted as saying okay if kids commit suicide if gay

Man quoted as saying okay if kids commit suicide if gay

Ukranian Yes on 8 Teenager - Hates Fags

Ukrainian Yes on 8 Teenager - Hates Fags

Yes on 8 Marriage = 1 Man + 1 Woman T-shirt crowd

Yes on 8 Marriage = 1 Man + 1 Woman T-shirt crowd

Now, on the “No on 8″ side it was an eclectic group of unorganized individuals that more than tripled the presence of the “Yes on 8″ groups, but because of the lack of one voice, it appears to be much smaller of a group. The one visual that stands out for me during this entire day was a single woman with her “I Want the Freedom to Marry” sign, standing in the center of the “Yes on 8″ crowd, often standing with silent tears running down her face as individuals were yelling at her. She was the most beautiful presence at that rally.

SF Prop 8 Oral Arguments Rally: Ashley Rojas behind a "Yes on 8" Protester

SF Prop 8: Ashley Rojas stands alone

SF Prop 8 Oral Arguments Rally

SF Prop 8 Oral Arguments Rally

There were also the young kids from King Middle School in Berkeley that were as strong and bold as any seasoned activist. They were heard and felt throughout the rally as they yelled at the “Yes on 8″ groups with a passion that was so refreshing to see.

March 26th, 2009 by dianna
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January 26th, 2009 by dianna

Sundance Film Festival 2009

The Sundance Film Festival was fantastic! Below is a recap of the films I saw in order of preference. The top 5 are “must see” films. At some of the films
I was able to catch a Q&A on video. Those are stored on the right nav of my blog in the Qik video widget. Detailed film descriptions are written in the Sundance Film Festival Guide.

  • La Mission: Filmed in San Francisco’s Mission district. A story of a single father dealing with the reality that his son is gay. The film deals with a side of the issue that has not yet been told on the big screen. Director and Cast Q&A on Qik video.
  • The Cove: This is by far the most important film at the festival. A must see for anyone on the planet. Anti-dolphin slave trade activist Ric O’Barry, the original trainer of Flipper dophins in the 60’s uncovers the horrifying truth of dolphin killing in Japan and its impact on our eco-system. Q&A on Qik video.
  • Push: Based on the novel by Sapphire: A powerful film about a 15 year old girl, pregnant for the 2nd time with her father’s child, who is also dealing with physical abuse by her mother and no education. An amazing performance by a new actor Gabourey Sidibe. I look forward to seeing her in future films. Director and Cast Q&A on Qik video.
  • The September Issue: A documentary of the 5 months leading up to the release of the September issue of Vogue 2007. Anna Wintour up close. Fantastic!!
  • The Greatest: The most powerful and haunting opening scene I’ve ever experienced. Principal Cast: Pierce Brosnan, Susan Sarandon.
  • Rough Aunties: A Documentary about a team of women in Durban, South Africa who have dedicated their lives to protecting children from physical and sexual abuse with their non-profit organization Bobbi Bear. It is amazing to watch what a team of 10 women can do for a community. A great reminder that a few focused, passionate individuals can significantly impact change.
  • Afghan Star: The American Idol of Afghanistan with over 1/3 of the country watching it. This story follows 4 contestants of which 2 are women - a first - that are competing for the #1 spot. For many of the citizens this represents the first encounter with any kind of democratic process. It also pushes the limits of what women can do, and puts 2 of them under government protection due to the death threats they are getting.
  • Helen: A powerful look at suicidal depression and the impact on the family. Compassionately told, raises awareness about an issue kept silent by many families. Principal Cast: Ashley Judd.
  • Motherhood: I missed the premier, and Jodie Foster. Need i say more? Okay, it was entertaining, worth a watch, a day in the life of a mom in NYC. Director Q&A on Qik video.
  • In the Loop: Some great one liners, was a festival favorite for many.
  • Dare: A coming of age story for three teens. Entertaining. Gay subplot.
  • 500 Days of Summer: A decent date flick.
  • Humpday: Two men find themselves in a mutual dare after a wild night of partying: to enter an amateur porn contest with a boundary breaking porn of two straight men having sex with each other for the first time and the issues around the event. I was surprised by how well they dealt with the topic, no gay bashing existed in this film. It was cleverly done.
  • Cliente - A French Gigolo: An oddly empowering film for women. As described in the review, “part bedroom farce, class melodrama and feminist foray…” Enjoyable.
  • An Education: Set in London 1961, a story of a young girls journey to adulthood. Carey Mulligan (also in The Greatest) carries this movie with her performance as Jenny. I hope to see more of her in the coming years.
  • World’s Greatest Dad: This film showed the worst side of every character, intentionally. Robin Williams plays the father of a troubled teen, the story really starts after the boys death. I’m not sure that i recommend this movie, though many believe it is one of Robin Williams strongest performances.
  • Victoria Day: Seen this storyline to often. Live review on the streets of Park City on Qik video.
  • Shrink: Typical predictable storyline around Hollywood insiders and their sad lives. I would have walked out if i wasn’t sitting in the middle of the row with all the cast members behind me. Principal Cast: Kevin Spacey
  • Manure: Interesting color, all shades of brown, as relates to the movie theme. An odd theme with clever dialog. Principal Cast: Billy Bob Thornton, Tea Leoni and Kyle Maclachlan.
  • The Vicious Kind: I walked out.

Video Links from Q&A’s:

Push: Director Q&A at Sundance Film Festival 2009
Push: Based on the novel by Saphire. Director: Lee Daniels. Cast Gabourey Sidibe, Paula Patton, MoNique, Mariah Carey, Sherri Shepherd, Lenny Kravitz

The Cove: Q&A at Sundance Film Festival 2009

Worlds Greatest Dad: Director Q&A Sundance Film Festival 2009
Director/Screenwriter: Bobcat Goldthwait. Cast: Robin Williams, Daryl Sabara, Alexie Glimore, Tom Kenny, Geoffrey Pierson, Henry Simmons, Mitzi Mccall, Tony V.

Motherhood: Director Q&A Sundance Film Festival 2009
Director/Writer: Katherine Dieckmann. Cast: Uma Thurman, Anthony Edwards, Minie Drive. Cameo: Jodie Foster

Films that were talked about by many but that i did not see:

  • Taking Chance
  • Arlen Faber
  • Brooklyn’s Finest
  • I Love You Phillip Morris
January 4th, 2009 by dianna

As a Christmas gift my mom gave me 4 small books on passion, leadership and life. It had been years since someone had given me these types of books to read. Previously it had only been from my father and he has been gone for 8 years. So, to receive one from my mother was a welcome surprise.

As I review these books I am reminded of my first “reading assignment” from my father when I was 13 years old. He handed me the book by Norman Vincent Peale called The Power of Positive Thinking. My dad was always sharing with me how powerful our thoughts are, how they are the key to what our mind, our bodies are being instructed to do.

When I was 24 years old my father started a class to teach a small group of 20 people about leadership, it was based on the book, The Laws of Success by Napolean Hill. It was 16 lessons of dense reading that took 6 months for us to finish. I joined the group along with 6 of my friends - not fully understanding what we were getting ourselves into. The long hours of reading, assimilating and preparing for the next weeks class often felt more grueling then any class or workshop I had taken. In retrospect that series of classes has become my foundation - the toolbox for leadership, communication, motivation and team building that I have used for the past 2 decades of my career.

So, when my mom gave me these 4 coffee table books, it brought me back to a time when this kind of reading was a regular activity of mine. When writing down my hopes and dreams were done on a consistent basis. Very early in my life I committed to myself to live a passionate conscious filled life focused on giving, compassion and service to others. Now, reflecting back to those early days, over 20 years ago, when I made that commitment i now realize i have been on “auto-pilot” for some time. Not really consciously updating those goals, making course corrections, and redefining them as i’ve grown and changed. Its time that I do that again.

I read one of the books yesterday called The Dash, Making a Difference with Your Life by Linda Ellis and Mac Anderson.

Linda Ellis - Author, Poet, Columnist

The Dash
copyright 1996 Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
from the beginning…to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth
and spoke of the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
that she spent alive on earth…
and now only those who loved her
know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own;
the cars….the house…the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard…
are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
that can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and real,
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
and more often wear a smile…
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy is being read
with your life’s actions to rehash…
would you be proud of the things they
say about how you spend your dash?

***

As i look into the new year which will be filled with many passionate dialogues with individuals related to civil rights i am reminded again of the words from my father: that I am to always lead with love. During a time when there is so much anger in me related to the issues surrounding Prop 8, it is important for me to focus on the basics that have been taught to me throughout the years by my parents. This thoughtful gift from my mother has reminded me of that.

During my research yesterday afternoon I also came across an inspiring talk called The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch. I hadn’t heard of him before since most of my reading has been of individuals that wrote about these topics well before the money machine of motivational speakers, OD consultants and books on leadership kicked in during the 80’s with Tom Peters and those that followed. I decided to look on You Tube to see if i could find the original talk. I did find it, as it appears 8,000,000 other people had. The hour long lecture was simple and filled with gold nuggets that we can all learn from. Its an hour long, so grab a cup of coffee or tea, find a comfortable chair and enjoy… it is well worth the time.

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December 21st, 2008 by dianna

The latest actions from the supporters of Prop 8 are not surprising to most of us close to the issue. What is surprising to me is how angry it makes me feel every time I read about what these people are trying to do. I also get infuriated when I drive past “Yes on 8″ signs every day from Dublin to Castro Valley where the signs are still hanging from the fences along the corridor.

During a discussion with Rudi she stated something that rings very true with me for the first time in decades. She jokingly said, “If you?re not gay, friends of gays, or want to sleep with me - I don’t want to be considered a friend of yours.” Rudi often has one-liners that come out of nowhere that make a person laugh, but this one was different, I agreed with it.

Jerry Browns quote really made it clear, “There are certain rights that are not to be subject to popular votes, otherwise they are not fundamental rights,” Brown said in an interview. “If every fundamental liberty can be stripped away by a majority vote, then it’s not a fundamental liberty.” - Mercury News

Prop 8 Peace Rally - <3 not H8

Prop 8 Peace Rally - Love not H8

I began to do some self-reflection. I was no longer in my radical 20’s when I would wear shirts that said, “I can’t even think straight” or “Closets are for clothes” or “Meat makes me sick.” Yes, I was a vegan at that time as well… These days, now in my 40’s, I wear my daughters? college T-shirts or my nephews? college hoodies, maybe I?ll even get wild and wear a shirt related to my work. Up until now I won’t even put a controversial bumper sticker on my car. I had settled into a comfortable state of being, one I justified as safer for my 9-year-old daughter. That was up until 2 weeks before the election. When I started to really understand that the Prop 8 initiative was picking up steam and could possibly pass.

Now, almost 2 months later, I’ve continued to go to rally’s, discuss the issues with friends and have key prop 8 blogs that I keep up on and have added to my twitter for even more frequent updates in case there is breaking news.

I’ve also joked about not wanting to associated to “those people” that don’t want me to have equal rights, but this morning, when I finally read the entire article in the Mercury News I realized that I am once again becoming a radical lesbian - 20 years later. Jerry Browns quote, meeting Gloria Steinem at the California Women?s Conference in Long Beach earlier this year, along with Rudi’s statement have sealed this fate. If Gloria can still be fighting for the rights of women at age 70, I guess I too can reengage in key issues around fundamental rights. I have the following picture as the screensaver on my iPhone to inspire me:

Gloria Steinem at Womens Conference in Long Beach

Gloria Steinem at Women's Conference in Long Beach

Next month Rudi and I are going into the eye of the storm when we go to the Sundance Film Festival in Park City Utah. Flying in to Salt Lake is the last thing I want to do right now but our $5000 investment made before this election is not something I want to throw away. More on Utah, Family and Sundance later…

December 21st, 2008 by dianna

San Jose Mercury News
By Mike Swift
Mercury News
Article Launched: 12/19/2008 03:56:25 PM PST
reposted from http://www.mercurynews.com/localnewsheadlines/ci_11273340?nclick_check=1

Saying Proposition 8 violates constitutionally protected liberties, Attorney General Jerry Brown on Friday asked the California Supreme Court to strike down the same-sex marriage ban, even as supporters filed a brief that would erase the legal recognition of couples married before Election Day.

In a brief filed with the high court, the state top’s lawyer argues for the first time that Proposition 8 should be invalidated, saying it is “inconsistent with the guarantees of individual liberty safeguarded” by the California Constitution. Brown had not taken a position on the measure until now.

Attorney General Jerry Brown discusses how his office will handle the passage of Proposition 8

“There are certain rights that are not to be subject to popular votes, otherwise they are not fundamental rights,” Brown said in an interview. “If every fundamental liberty can be stripped away by a majority vote, then it’s not a fundamental liberty.”

Proposition 8 supporters on Friday further pumped up the wattage of the coming legal confrontation by naming Kenneth W. Starr, the former U.S. solicitor general and independent counsel in the Whitewater investigation against then-President Bill Clinton. Starr, dean of the law school at Pepperdine University, will argue the Yes on 8 case before the Supreme Court, in arguments that could begin as soon as March.

An estimated 18,000 same-sex couples married in California after the Supreme Court’s ruling in May that struck down existing legal bans. Brown has said that Proposition 8 is not retroactive to
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those couples, and he reiterated that statement Friday, saying the marriages of same-sex couples who wed between June 16 and Election Day should remain valid in California, regardless of whether Proposition 8 is upheld.

Proposition 8 supporters acknowledge those marriages were legal before Election Day, and say they are not trying to “nullify” them now. They argue that the plain language of Proposition 8 ? “Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California.” ? means those marriages can no longer be recognized in California, although they would still be valid in other states where same-sex marriage is legal or recognized.

“Proposition 8 is in effect, and only marriage between a man and a woman is recognized,” said Andrew Pugno, general counsel for the Proposition 8 Legal Defense Fund. “It doesn’t say only a man and woman can get married. It says that only marriage between a man and a woman is recognized. It means what it says.”

The group’s brief says Proposition 8 “encompasses both pre-existing and later-created same-sex (and polygamous) marriages, whether performed in California or elsewhere. With crystal clarity, it declares that they are not valid or recognized in California.”

Supporters of same-sex marriage charged that the real intent was to attack gays and lesbians.

“In doing what they are doing now, they are showing the world what their true agenda is: to harm lesbian, gay and bisexual people,” said Geoff Kors, executive director of Equality California. “No one could think it’s morally acceptable to destroy a legally existing marriage.”

Proposition 8 opponents filed suit the day after the marriage ban passed, arguing that the initiative process was legally flawed. Brown had urged the Supreme Court to take the case, but by saying Friday that Proposition 8 should be invalidated, he aligned himself with civil rights groups and left Proposition 8 supporters legally isolated. Normally, the attorney general would defend existing state law.

The Supreme Court’s ruling in May held that the state constitution provides a right to marry that cannot be denied to same-sex couples. The brief filed by the attorney general on Friday argues that in order invalidate such a fundamental right, the court must determine that there is a compelling justification to do so, such as the protection of public health or safety.

But, Brown argues, the court’s ruling in May found that no such compelling justification exists, so Proposition 8 must be invalidated.

Brown compared his decision to oppose Proposition 8 to Attorney General Thomas C. Lynch’s decision to oppose Proposition 14, a 1964 constitutional initiative that overturned a state law that prohibited housing discrimination based on race.

“It’s unusual, but it happens,” Brown said of an attorney general opposing existing law. “Existing laws include the whole of the constitution, and just as Attorney General Lynch filed a brief calling for the invalidation of Proposition 14, we’re filing a brief here calling for the invalidation of Proposition 8.”

December 13th, 2008 by dianna
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Credits: Conceived and Written (six weeks later than he shoulda) by-Marc Shaiman Directed and Staged by: Adam Shankman Produced by Adam Shankman, Marc Shaiman and Mike Farah Edited by Bradly Schulz and Drew Antzis Cast (in order of appearance) California Gays and The People That Love Them Jordan Ballard, Margaret Cho, Barrett Foa, J.B. Ghuman, John Hill, Andy Richter, Maya Rudolph, Rashad Naylor, Nicole Parker Proposition 8′ers and The People That Follow Them Prop 8 Leader- John C. Reilly Prop 8 Leader’s #1 Wife- Allison Janney Prop 8 Leader’s #2 Wife- Kathy Najimy Riffing Prop 8′er-Jenifer Lewis A Preacher- Craig Robinson Scary Catholic School Girls From Hell-Rashida Jones, Lake Bell, Sarah Chalke The Frightened Villagers Katharine “Kooks” Leonard, Seth Morris, Denise “Esi!” Piane, Lucian Piane, Richard Read, Seth Redford, Quinton Strack, Tate Taylor, Brunson Green Jesus Christ Jack Black A Very Smart Fellow Neil Patrick Harris Piano Player Marc “Marc” Shaiman —- Co-Choreographer: Anne “Mama” Fletcher Recorded and Mixed by Frank Wolf & Greg Hayes Director of Photography: Michael Barrett Camera Operators: Jake Szymanski, Bradly Schulz and Drew Antzis Production designer: Nelson Coates Costume designer: Shanna Knecht Costume assistants: Leslie Schilling, Annalisa Adams, Elizabeth Abate Hair: Laura Sanchez Make-up: Shauna O’Toole, Atticuss Sharp Production sound: Bradford Craig Music editor: Lisa Jaime Music assistant: Brian Naguit Snacky: “Snacky” Special Thanks to Adam McKay for the nudge

December 12th, 2008 by dianna

How many times have you had to hear opponents of marriage equality cite passage after passage from the Bible? How many times have you wanted to know exactly the right response to their literary acrobatics?
Newsweek’s recent cover story, “The Religious Case for Gay Marriage” provides just that ? debunking all the popular myths.
The response? On the first day, Newsweek was “bombarded” with 20,000 emails in opposition to its article.
Stand up for equality and fairness - send Newsweek a note today.
The current cover story of Newsweek magazine titled, “The Religious Case for Gay Marriage” should be read by each and every member of our community. The piece provides an in-depth debunking of many of the popular myths about Scripture that the religious-right has used time and time again.
How refreshing to see a major, mainstream American news outlet speaking the truth in such a courageous way.
But, as you would fully expect, the right-wing has launched a massive uproar to the piece by flooding Newsweek’s editors with thousands of letters in opposition. Last night, I interviewed Lisa Miller, Religion Editor for Newsweek Magazine and the article’s author, on my Sirius XM radio show, The Agenda. You can hear Lisa in her own words describe how on the first day the story came out Newsweek was “bombarded” with 20,000 emails in opposition to the article.
Friends, when someone is courageously willing to stand up and take on the those who have for so long twisted the words of the Bible and gone unchecked ? it is our obligation to make sure they know that there are also millions of us standing right on their side.
Don’t let the voices of extremists silence those of inclusion and truth. Join me by sending a letter of support to Newsweek today.
You too can make sure that the voices of equality and fairness aren’t drowned out by those who oppose our families.
Warmly,

Joe Solmonesehttp://www.hrcactioncenter.org/campaign/newsweek/xnukkiir1jndxm6d?
President

November 16th, 2008 by dianna

We stood with 1000’s outside city hall in san francisco yesterday to protest the passage of prop 8. The signs were all fantastic, but the set below were my favorites - i am a huge keith haring fan.

<3 Not H8

<3 Not H8

Once at the Rally we heard from many leaders in our community, the most passionate being from Rev Amos Brown, a national board member of the NAACP.

frankfarm - flickr

frankfarm - flickr

Senator Mark Leno also had the crowd going, his opening remark, “This isn’t about sex! This is about Love!” followed up with, “We don?t live in a theocracy. The genius of our constitution is that it allows freedom of all religions, but no holy book determines the law for others.”

FrankFarm - Flickr

FrankFarm - Flickr

The phrase that continues to stay with me is:

First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win. - Gandhi

It does feel like we are close to the end on this one, and as much as i wanted to also have the following sign up, i realize that the way i have educated people to date about my family has never been with an “in your face” attitude, its always been with non-threatening conversations. I continue to feel that anger come up, and it shows itself every once in awhile, but i keep reminding myself that if we lead with Love we will ultimately get our equal rights.

Scary Isn't It... - Be Devine

Photo - Be Devine - Calitics.com